The many obstacles that a martial artist comes in contact with are too numerous to list. They fall into categories of personal relationships (which we know to be a powerful force to reckon with), and also financial obligations and commitments. There is yet another obstacle, that is one of the most difficult, and that deals with self mastery. This is a challenge that a martial artist dedicates himself to early in his development. The first thing that must be understood is that we must develop the ability to make sound decisions based on our committed goals and desires. Our decisions should be supported by our choices and should of course, reflect those persons who are impacted by our decisions. If we are able to utilize the ability to make sound decisions, we are on a journey of growth and positive outcome. If we allow ourselves to make decisions that benefit others while sacrificing ourselves, then this is simply a path of self-destruction. Use all channels that will lead you to making a positive choice. Select those who you respect, and ask them to share the benefit of their wisdom. Have faith in your mentors to assist you along your path. As with all things, remember to maintain balance with other aspects of you life.